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Feng Shui For The Bedroom: Improve Sleep, Romance & Health

INSIDE: When you understand feng shui for the bedroom, you can improve your sleep, your health, and your romantic relationship. Try these tips and tricks for an instant improvement!


Our bedroom is our sanctuary. However, we sometimes tend to forget how powerful this space can be.

Instead of generating rejuvenating energy, it can become a place where we bring in a lot of frustration and have nightmares.

Most of us keep electronics next to our bedside table and some of us even work from the bedroom.

One interesting study published by Healthline has shown that microwaves coming from our little gadgets have a lot to do with bad health, disrupted sleep schedules, and constant fatigue.

Fortunately, with a little help from an ancient practice called feng shui, we can raise the vibration of the room we sleep in and improve the quality of our lives.

This article will provide guidance and inspiration about feng shui meaning, helping you deep dive into feng shui for the bedroom.

Feng Shui Bedroom Rules Pairs

How to Feng Shui Your Bedroom

There are several tricks you can use when it comes to feng shui for the bedroom to optimize the energetic exchange in this room.

Here's what you can do to make the most of any bedroom...

Be Mindful of Furniture Placement

All doors and windows in our home are the gateways of energy, and the bedroom is no exception.

While we can’t do much to move either of these, we can place our bed and the rest of the furniture to bring us more favorable energy.

The bed is the most important element of this room and therefore should never be placed in a direct line across from the door or a window. Such a position will make us feel exposed and unsafe when in bed, and therefore disrupt our sleep.

Instead, placing the bed diagonally or where we can’t see the entrance directly will allow us to feel protected from any energy that would disrupt our peace in the bedroom.

The same rule applies to the closet, as it can trap energy when placed directly across from the bed.

Decorate in Pairs

In feng shui for the bedroom, everything should be in a pair, be it the furniture or the decoration. For example, instead of one, or none, there should be two bedside tables on each side of the bed.

This represents partnership and helps bring intimacy and equality to your relationship.

It can also help us manifest luck and romance because the pair of bedside tables symbolizes unity and cooperation, which makes it potent for creating a passionate and enjoyable love life.

This creates necessary symmetry in the bedroom and balances the energy of you and your partner.

Zodiac Stones

Be Aware of What Belongs in the Bedroom

Sometimes due to lack of space, we use our bedroom as space for exercise, work, a hobby or dance area. However, the bedroom is our sanctuary and should be a place for rest and intimacy only.

Technology and gadgets represent the fire element and emit very strong energy waves. If our bedroom becomes our tiny cinema or workspace, where we keep a lot of electronics, we do two unfavorable things:

  1. We accumulate stress, frustration, and fatigue
  2. We invite dis-balance in the magnetic field, which disrupts sleep.

These issues can then easily reflect on our intimate life.

One of the feng shui tips for the bedroom is that minimalism is better than maximalism. The bedroom should be a space for essentials only.

In case you have a larger bedroom and you use it as an office space, dividing it with a wall, and creating two separate rooms can help balance the energy and protect the sleeping area from stress, worry, and high-charged energy coming from electronics.

When that is not an option, separating the bed with a bright non-transparent curtain can help soothe the energy around the bed.

Eliminate Sharp Objects or Corners

Sharp edges of the furniture are a symbol of friction, insensitivity, harshness, and aggression. On the flip side, rounded edges are gentle and represent balance.

By choosing bedside tables that are round or have rounded edges and a bed that doesn't have extremely sharp edges, we allow more harmony to enter this space.

Feng Shui Tips for the Bedroom Sanctuary

Choose Colors Wisely

In feng shui for the bedroom, the general rule, at least when choosing the wallpaper and paint, is to avoid tones that are too intense or cold.

Instead, opt for calming pastel and neutral tones, which are considered to be the best feng shui colors for the bedroom. This is important because any intensity can amplify energy, rather than calm it down.

The bedroom is a sacred space, and in feng shui, that can be amplified by using the right colors.

In general, we can’t go wrong when choosing earthily tones, like beige or brown. Lighter tones like these help a space to become more peaceful and a place where we feel stable, safe, and grounded.

Each color in feng shui, however, has symbolism and carries a specific vibration. Green is also compatible with earthy tones and carries the energy of renewal and growth.

Shades of blue can be calming, while warm tones like red, purple, or pink can help invite more passion and love into this sacred space.

However, intense red is a highly stimulative color and may bring the issues of power into the bedroom, disrupting the flow of energy. The same applies to yellow and orange, which can be overstimulating, keeping us awake at night.

While black may look elegant, it is a very contemplative color, and is not the ideal color for such an interior. White and greys, however, particularly lighter tones, can act as a nice balance between the light and heavier energies that come into the bedroom.

If you chose to go for dark tones, balancing it with bright furniture and flooring will help tone down the intensity.

Amethyst Geodes

Declutter & Organize

One of the most important feng shui basics is the idea of decluttering. This is because in order to create a high-vibrating space, it is crucial to be mindful of how we organize the bedroom.

By keeping the space clean and clutter-free, we eliminate any interference that could be blocking the positive energy from coming in. For instance, while books are incredibly important, they stimulate our minds and should be kept in another room, especially old books.

That being said, anything old, rusty, or unusable has the energy of stagnation and heaviness that we don’t want in the bedroom space.

Under-bedroom storage, while it may seem like a great solution, blocks the energy flow. The only support we need is a soft mattress, pillows, and sheets, which also should be kept clean and tidy.

Making the bed early in the morning invites in fresh energy and helps us realign and refresh the energy for the new day. 

Feng Shui Bedroom Décor

When it comes to feng shui for the bedroom and decorating the space, there are a few essential tips to follow.

Here are the most important feng shui bedroom rules and tips to follow when decorating your space...

Be Mindful of Mirrors

Feng shui mirror placement in the bedroom is vital. In feng shui, mirrors are believed to disturb the energy, as they reflect and block the energy flow.

Larger mirrors, especially those placed above the bed, bounce the positive vibrations back from coming towards us, leaving us deprived of uplifting vibes.

If there are any mirrors in the room, these should be smaller with rounded edges and not directly facing the bed. This will prevent energy rollercoasters that are directly connected to sleep problems, like sleep apnea, hypersomnia, or insomnia.

Feng Shui Mirror Placement

Include Crystals

Healing gemstones are known for helping rejuvenate and revitalize us. We can decorate the space with polished stones, beads, or cluster crystals.

By placing them by the bedside or under our pillow, we can feel more relaxed and at ease.

Crystals are also powerful totalizators and purifiers that have the power to repel the negative energy coming our way, cleanse the old, and attract new.

Some of the ideal crystals for the bedroom are Amethyst, Rose Quartz, Black Tourmaline, Aquamarine, and Howlite.

Amethyst is especially potent for eliminating stress and tension from a space. It is a cleansing crystal that keeps the bedroom unaffected by negative energies and entities coming in.

This is a gemstone that gives us emotional relief, prevents nightmares, and disrupted sleep. But its power doesn’t stop there. It also attracts loving energy towards us and keeps our intimate lives protected from toxic energy.

All of this can help us achieve a greater sense of calm, promote feelings of contentment, compassion, and bring us to a place of inner peace.

With Amethyst under the pillow, we can fall asleep faster and wake up feeling fresh and recharged.

The Importance of the 5 Elements

Feng shui for the bedroom is there to help us relax, and in order to achieve that, we can rely on simple decorations.

Since the bedroom shouldn’t be too cluttered, the best way to include all five elements is to choose pieces that correlate with each element.

For example, the fire element is best channeled through lights, so picking the right, calming bedtime lamps or scented candles can help bring in more romance and passion.

Wood and metal elements are frequently already vibrating with wooden or metal beds and tables.

The water element in the bedroom is unique. It can be included by using light blue carpets or black details and shouldn’t be overdone.

This is because too much of it tends to emphasize the emotional energy in the room, which can then make us feel a bit blue.

The earth element can be included by placing decorative pottery in the room.

Although plants are vibrating with it, having them in the bedroom can draw the energy towards the plants, and away from you. Plants are living just like we are, and will tend to absorb any energy in the room.


Bedding sets and sheets are vital for bringing more positive energy into the bedroom.

Choosing natural fabrics such as linen or silk can help bring us closer to nature. These make us feel more nourished, grounded, and protected.

The color of the sheets should be a perfect balance element in the room.

Overall, they should be kept as fresh and clean as possible, and they should be soft and comfortable.

Choosing sheet colors correspond with the colors of the walls mentioned above.

Final Thoughts About Feng Shui for the Bedroom

Now that you know how to feng shui your bedroom, you can enjoy a peaceful space that is conducive to better sleep, romance, and health. Even just making any small changes will have a positive impact, so pick one thing you can easily do and make it happen!

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